Wednesday, February 17, 2010

New Boundaries

So, first of all.. I miss you blooging Ms. Harper!
Second of all, I told you that I would blog about mine and Michael's new boundaries.. so that you could have them in a place where you would be able to go and refer back to them time and time again..
this may be subject to change.. because I havn't seen his list yet.. and well.. they have to kind of have the same things on them.. once we meet with Ashley and Brian (they will help us pick the ones that are best for both of us..) so yeah.. but for now this is what I have.
:)
1.No Kissing on the lips
2.Only kissing on the cheek hello and ghoodby (two times)
3.No being in a room alone
4.Sit a seat apart in the car
5.No spending the night
6.No kissing on the neck/ears
7.NEVER in a bedroom alone, or laying on a bed together
8.No touching bare skins on back/belly
9.No touching in the strike zone (do you remember when Brian talked about this.. if not let me know and I will leave another comment telling you what it is.
10.No "physical sexual touching" none
11No "bad" dancing
12.No being in a house alone
13.When driving alone-No touching except when hand holding
14.No discussing marriage until LATER
15.No comparing our relationships to other couples, we are not them, we are us.
16.Tell our accountability partners (that's you!) before we hang out that we are&then be open&honest about what happens afterward
17.No sharing a blanket
18.No going out to see movies alone? ( I am not sure about this one yet.. because there will be other people there.. bnut it is dark.. so i don't know I will have to ask Ashley and Brian on this one.
So, that's them for now.. let me know what you think.. when you EVER get on again! loll..

1 comment:

  1. those are really good ones. hard i'm sure. i wish it were easier for me to have boundaries like that.
    I know you said you have been doing good with them but just to check again how have they been going for you guys?

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